These were so much love in Galvin and Charmaine's wedding... I have the opportunity to be share my life with this bro... our paths didn't cross even though we were in the same church. I got to know this bro thus his website. As I read his blog and listen to his songs... my heart was connected with it... Here I see a bro in christ who went thru so much yet still stand firm in his belief in God... His life encouraged me to relook and examine my own walk...

Though we seldom meet up for long chats, everything when we do meet our lives are just connected... there was this special bonding that we have that we cannot explain. Over the years, I seen the bro grow from a boy to a man who really fear the Lord and take every opportunity to witness to the youth...

From him, I see God's footprints... in the most difficult period of his life... God was there to hold and pull him thru each and every one of them... from his life, I learnt to appreciate life's little things...

I felt so blessed to be involved in his wedding as xiong di... even though I have to lose the entire right arm's hair... I will do it... without much thought...

As I watched the thanksgiving video... I couldn't stop be teared to know that he is going to marry a beautiful help mate... Thanks Galvin and Charmaine for allowing me to be part of your lives.

After a hectic 30th May, the next day is my sister's wedding... I didn't really sleep as I was busy preparing some stuff for her wedding... I was assigned to open the car door, take video, aid my parents and my blind uncle's transportation...

I was really exhausted after the morning gate crashing... and I had to rush back to Jac's place to unload all Galvin & Charmaine's wedding decor (we lost our tool box and a box of ribbons which someone remove and store it somewhere in church) so that I can space to fetch my parents, Jac & uncle to the ROM and banquet venue...

When I was at the ROM venue... I couldn't believe that my sister is going to be married... all these while I was still thinking my sister is young... my memory stuck at her in her teen years... As I stood there witnessing her signing the marriage cert... it dwell upon me that she is already an adult, no longer the sister that I used to fight and quarrel...

For many years, we didn't really are in good terms... we couldn't see eye ball to eye ball... it was much later when Jac came into the picture that our relationship improved... our parents never really taught us how to love each other... I realised that in the years that I showed concern and love for my sister, it was demonstrated in a wrong manner... I am still learning to love her through my words and action...

I am really glad that I was rope to be involved in her wedding... I really appreciate her patience... I was extremely happy that she married a wonderful and understanding husband whom I think is truly a loving man who can provide her with love and happiness...

Kor, is very much happy and excited for you that you have entered the other phase of life... thanks for allowing me to be part of your planning for your marriage... I just want to say that I LOVE YOU very much my dear sister... all these years, I am sorry that I wasn't there to be a friend and brother... pls forgive me for my shortcoming.

There is another significant with the date 30th May... as it was my 5th anniversary with Jac... I didn't have time to buy her a gift... I wanted very much to do something for her... but time wasn't at my side... I think she probably oso forgot that we need to make time to celebrate this special occasion... I just want to leave a footnote that... many times, I wasn't the best boyfriend you can have... I have many shortcomings... my mind is always on somethings else... I couldn't really lead you well as a leader... I couldn't give you my undivided attention...

I still am very thankful for you for being a patience and big-hearted girlfriend who is always readily forgive me and give me time to reflect... you gave so much love into this relationship... you are always there for me when I face setback in my business and my ministry... thanks for providing me support emotional support when I needed...

You are the best that I can ever have...

This year is one of the most weddings invitation that I will have to attend... Out of the numerous one of them... I will be Xiong De for 5 of them... after which I will be the groom for my own wedding... O.o